The role of mediators and financial disclosure in Family Mediation

29 January 2026

A family mediator’s role is to remain independent and impartial whilst assisting couples who are separating or divorcing to resolve disputes over finances or children in a constructive and child focused way. As mediators we guide discussions, manage conflict and support both parties with informed decision making. Mediators aim to create a safe environment where both parties feel heard and respected, and that they have been given an equal opportunity to speak.

A mediator does not decide who is right or wrong but helps facilitate communication, sometimes helping to reframe or repeat what is being said to ensure each party understands. Where there are children in the family to consider, the mediator will ensure that those children remain the focus of discussions and their best interests remain at the heart of any decisions. Whilst parties may arrive at mediation with a fixed position, a mediator will explore alternative options and identify the shared goals of the parties helping them work towards a practical solution.

Managing the process of family mediation

At a first joint session, a mediator will often discuss the items they wish to include on an agenda and their priorities so they can focus on what they both consider important and not get bogged down in any peripheral issues that may arise.

Mediators cannot provide legal advice, but they can provide legal information, including what principles and factors a court would consider if faced with the same facts. We encourage both parties to seek their own independent legal advice alongside the mediation process to ensure that they have clear expectations and understanding of the law.

Financial disclosure during family mediation

Financial disclosure is a fundamental element of mediation when discussing matrimonial finances following separation. Full, frank and honest disclosure allows both parties to negotiate openly with a clear understanding of both the joint and individual financial picture.

The mediator will emphasise the importance of full disclosure and will generally facilitate the exchange of that information in the mediation process, although some will come to the process having already exchanged financial disclosure. The financial disclosure is typically compromised of details of property assets, savings, investments, pensions liabilities and income. Form E is commonly used for disclosure, but this is considered on a case-by-case basis.

Full and frank disclosure is encouraged to ensure openness and transparency between the parties. If disclosure is incomplete or inconsistent then this can impact ongoing trust and therefore ability to reach an agreement.

If you would like more information about financial disclosure in mediation or mediation in general then please get in touch with our team.